Social Anxiety Disorder

social phobia, social anxietySocial anxiety disorder, otherwise know as SAD, also known as social phobia, is the most common anxiety disorder among other types of anxiety disorder.  It is one of the most common psychiatric disorders, with 12% of Americans having experienced it in their lifetime.  It is known and labelled by intense fear in one or more social situations, causing considerable distress and impaired ability to function in at least some parts of daily life.  Most people that goes through anxiety attack rarely knows what is going on with them.

person with social anxiety disorder is afraid that he or she will make mistakes, look
020731_1618_0164_lsmsbad, and be embarrassed or humiliated in front of others. The fear may be made
worse by a lack of social skills or experience in social situations. The anxiety can build into a panic attack.
As a result of the fear, the person endures certain social situations in extreme distress or may avoid them altogether.
In addition, people with social anxiety disorder often suffer “anticipatory” anxiety — the fear of a situation before it even happens — for days or weeks before the event.
In many cases, the person is aware that the fear is unreasonable, yet is unable to overcome it.

People with social phobia become very anxious and self-conscious in everyday social situations. They have an intense, persistent, and chronic fear of being watched and judged by others, and of doing things that will embarrass them. They can worry for days or weeks before a dreaded situation. This fear may become so severe that it interferes with work, school, and other ordinary activities, and can make it hard to make and keep friends.

Although many people with social phobia realize that their fears about being with people are excessive or unreasonable, they are unable to overcome them on their own.

Social phobia can be limited to one situation (such as talking to people, eating or drinking, or writing on a blackboard in front of others). Or, it may be so broad (such as in generalized social phobia) that the person experiences anxiety around almost everyone other than family members.

Physical symptoms that often occur with social phobia include:


•Difficulty talking


•Profuse sweating

The goal of treatment is to help you function effectively. The success of the treatment usually depends on the severity of the phobia.

Anti-anxiety and antidepressant medications are sometimes used to help relieve the symptoms of phobias. See: Panic Disorder for more information about medications.

Behavioral treatment appears to have long-lasting benefits.

•Cognitive behavioral therapy helps you understand and change the thoughts that are causing your condition, as well as learn to recognize and replace panic-causing thoughts.

•Systematic desensitization or exposure therapy may be used to treat phobias. You are asked to relax, then imagine the things that cause the anxiety, working from the least fearful to the most fearful. Gradual exposure to the real-life situation has also been used with success to help people overcome their fears.

•Social skills training may involve social contact in a group therapy situation to practice social skills. Role playing and modeling are techniques used to help you become more comfortable relating to others in a social situation.

Lifestyle changes may help reduce how often the attacks occur.

•Get regular exercise, enough sleep, and regularly scheduled meals.

•Reduce or avoid the use of caffeine, some over-the-counter cold medicines, and other stimulants.

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VA – Education and Training of Veterans

Veteran Affairs can, and will help you cover the cost of furthering your education and skills through benefit programs.  They may pay your tuition, housing, training, and other costs if you qualify.  The terms and condition for the qualification of your benefits can be found at the official VA ebenefit Web site.

To apply for education and training benefits, simply follow the three-step process below:

Step 1:  Collect and prepare the necessary paperwork listed below:

  • Copies of your discharge or separation papers (the DD-214 or equivalent)
  • Documentation of an enlistment incentive or College Fund—sometimes called a “kicker”—although this isn’t required to apply for the GI Bill

You can use this benefit tool to help you with the paperwork.

Step 2:  Select a school, or your desired school using the education and training comparator tool.

Step 3:  Apply through education and benefit Web site .

VA’s education and training benefits are provided through Post-9/11 GI Bill, Montgomery GI Bill, Survivors’ and Dependents’ Assistance.

You may be eligible for one-on-one support, counseling, and training to boost your skills and build your career through the Veteran Affair’s Vocational Rehabilitation and Employment program, available to transitioning Service members and Veterans. Family members caring for a service-disabled Veteran may also be eligible for career assistance, job training, and other services.  For more information, visit




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